Understanding the G-SPOT and Female Sexuality A 10-Step Guide for Unleashing the Ultimate in Female Ecstasy by Donald L. Hicks Understanding the G-Spot and Female Sexuality: A 10-Step Guide for Unleashing the Ultimate in Female Ecstasy Copyright © 2001, Donald L. Hicks All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without written permission from the author. Cover Photo: SuperStock Inc. Universal Publishers / uPUBLISH.com USA / 2001 www.upublish.com/books/hicks.htm ISBN: 1-58112-657-3 paperback ISBN: 1-58112-655-7 ebook Material in this book is for educational purposes only. This book is sold with the understanding that neither the author nor the publisher is engaged in rendering legal, accounting, investment, medical, or any other professional service. The G-Spot techniques described in this guide are designed to help individuals and couples heighten their sexual pleasure and emotional well-being. Absolutely no part of the program should cause pain or unusual symptoms. Should such arise during or after G-Spot stimulation, the affected party is advised to seek medical evaluation to identify possible causes. No part of this book should be used as means of self-treatment or as a viable substitute to or for medical evaluation by a physician. Any use of the techniques used in this book are at your own risk. Table of Contents Chapter 1– Learning the Basics 7 Does the G-Spot Exist? 7 What’s the big deal about G-Spot orgasms, anyway? 9 The Dire truth about conventional orgasms 11 The 92% Factor 14 Why Does the G-Spot Exist? 16 A Side Order to Go, Please 17 Blended Orgasms - A Recipe for Higher Ecstasy 20 To Orgasm, or Not to Orgasm? 22 Intimacy: 101 24 The Phenomenon of Female Ejaculation 25 Some Healthy Considerations 32 A Brief History of the G-Spot 34 Chapter 2– The Technique 37 Let’s get started! 37 Step 1: Priming 39 Step 2: Foreplay 40 Step 3: More Foreplay 41 Step 4:Teasing 43 Step 5:The “Go Ahead” Sign 45 Step 6: Hovering 46 Step 7: Locating her G-Spot 49 Step 8: Stimulating the G-Spot 52 Step 9:The “Big-O” Draws Near 55 Step 10:You’re There! 57 Chapter 3– Afterwards 59 The Little Death 59 Sharing the Experience 60 Chapter 4– Self-Application 62 Chapter 5– Exploring Other Possibilities 64 Chapter 6– Problem Shooting 67 Pain or Discomfort 67 Inability to Reach Orgasm 68 The Urge to Urinate 69 Orgasm Anxiety 70 He Said / She Said 71 The Emotional Aspect 73 Chapter 7– Tips From Experienced Users 75 Chapter 8– An Informative Interview with a Renowned Sex Researcher 80 Chapter 9– Case Studies & Worksheets 88 Female Responses 88 Male Responses 97 Chapter 10– The Ending Climax 104 Voluntary Questionnaire 105 Part 1 106 Part 2 108 Resources for Further Research 112 Reading Materials 112 Web Sites 113 Key Words Glossary 114 About the Author 118 Materials Used in Preparing This Guide 119 Bibliography 119 Endnotes 120 Dedication This book is dedicated to Arleta,the one person who encouraged me to write. The wife who never complained about the trough I wore in the floor while pacing restlessly back and forth,searching for that elusive word or angle. The woman who never laughed at the bald spots worn above either ear from scratching my head in thought. The one person who had unwavering confidence in my abilities, even when I lacked faith in myself. Without her patience and understanding, this book would not exist. Learning the Basics Does the G-Spot Exist? You may be wondering if the G-Spot is real.... Does it exist, or is all the “G-Spot hype”just a selling tool for magazine articles or adult novelties? And if the G-Spot does exist, why is it there? Why is it so easily overlooked? What physical purpose does it have? Does the penis touch it during intercourse? And most importantly, if the G-Spot does exist, how does one find it and coax it from hiding? This book will answer all of these questions. You may also wonder about female ejaculations — “squirting” as the phenomena is often called. Is “squirting” merely more sales hype, or are female ejaculations real? And if female ejacula- tion does occur, why haven’t you seen it? Why does it occur? What physical purpose is there for female ejaculations? If you’re wondering about any of these questions, let me take a moment to congratulate you for taking the time to enrich your knowledge and understanding of female sexuality. As you will learn from these pages, the phenomena of the G-Spot and female ejaculations are not new to society. Documented mentions of these enigmas can be traced back through history to as early as Aristotle. And without doubt, millions of people have reached their graves without ever experiencing the joys and pleasures offered by the G-Spot. The goal of this book is simple. We want you to learn, first- hand, that both G-Spot orgasms and female ejaculation do exist and can be evoked to bring about the ultimate in female ecstasy and sexual enjoyment. More importantly, you’ll learn why these two phenomena exist, how they’ve been overlooked countless 7 times in the past,and the important roles they play in the processes of human reproduction and childbirth. Through these pages,you’ll learn a proven and tested “10-Step technique”that shows you how to find the G-Spot,how to stimulate it, and how to drive your lover crazy with ecstasy. You’ll deepen your understanding of the female anatomy while learning new methods of rekindling the romance and sexual excitement in your current relationship. The G-Spot does exist. Through this book, you can prove it to yourself, and your lover. 8 What’s the big deal about G-Spot orgasms, anyway? “My lover and I have great sex...why do we need to worry about the G-Spot?” If you’ve never seen or experienced a true G-Spot orgasm, imagine for a moment, an orgasm that causes the whole vagina to spasm violently, often contracting so tightly that it literally tries to “force out”your finger or any object in the vagina. And imagine that while these intense contractions are throbbing and pulsing throughout the vagina,the vagina becomes very wet,often literally ejaculating a stream or spurt of fluid with each contraction. Imagine an orgasm that causes such intense ecstasy that even the quietest and most controlled woman will yelp and buck and thrash; one that makes normal “screamers” go dead silent—the scream caught in her throat—a scream that if freed may wake all the neighbors within a five block radius. And imagine the satisfaction of never having to wonder: “Did she just orgasm? Did she fake it, or was it real?”. But instead knowing the instant her orgasm begins by clear physical signs that occur involuntarily and accompany the orgasm. This is the glory of a G-Spot orgasm. But we don’t want you to take our word for it. We want you to see for yourself. Here’s what a few others had to say: “I didn’t think orgasms like that were real. . . I thought they only existed in romance novels. . .” — B. R. 9 “It was absolutely the deepest, most wonderful climax I’ve ever felt! It was like warmth started in my very center and flowed outward all over my body. I loved it!” — L. K. “I thought I had wet the bed! And then (name withheld) explained what had happened and I could hardly believe it finally happened to me. . . If I have to wash the sheets every day for the rest of my life, it’s worth it.”— T.J. “I wanted it to last forever and couldn’t stand another second. . . both at the same time. It was the greatest!” — M.J.J. “After that, I’ll never let (name withheld) get away from me! Our love life has never been better. . .” — K. A. “She used to just lie there and moan through the whole thing. It was frustrating because I never knew when she was orgasming or if she even orgasmed. Thanks to your technique, there’s no more guessing...” — T.P. 10