Teaching Notes by Joyce Meyer Joyce Meyer Ministries P.O. Box 655 • Fenton, MO 63026 (636) 349-0303 • (800) 727-9673 joycemeyer.org TN210 Copyright © 2004, 2010 Joyce Meyer Ministries, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored electronically, sold, or transmitted in any form or by any means without the prior written consent of Joyce Meyer Ministries, Inc. August 5-7, 2010 Toronto, Canada July 8-10, 1999 Boston, Massachusetts THE WISDOM OF MAKING RIGHT CHOICES Making Right Choices Foundation Scripture: Deuteronomy 30:19 – I set before you life and death; choose life. I. Regret A. Regret (defined) – To feel sorry, disappointed, or distressed about. To feel sorrow or grief over. To mourn. A sense of loss and longing for someone gone. Distress over a desire unfulfilled or an action performed or not performed. B. Examples of things people regret: 1. Things said or done that I wish I had not said, or I wish I had not done. 2. Things not said or done: I wish I had told that person how much they meant to me and now it is too late. 3. I wish I had saved some money all these years. Now I regret that I spent everything I had. 4. I regret that I ate so much at dinner. 5. I regret that I never exercised in my life. 6. I regret that I didn’t finish school. THE WISDOM OF MAKING RIGHT CHOICES 1 7. I wish I had spent more time with my children when they were young. I was too busy making money, and now I don’t have any relationship with them. 8. Etc., etc. C. Many people regret their whole life. They look back and it fills their hearts with regret. THIS IS THE RESULT OF MAKING WRONG CHOICES. II. Gehazi Changes His Destiny With A Bad Choice. A. II Kings: Chapter 5 B. Gehazi let the love of money change his destiny. 1. I Timothy 6:10 (KJV) – For the love of money is the root of all evil . . . 2. Mark 10:21 – Jesus told the rich man to give away his possessions, and he would not do it. Verse 22 – The man went away sad, depressed, gloomy and grieved, and I am sure he stayed that way. 3. How many people live miserable lives because they followed money instead of wisdom? C. II Kings 2:1-14 – Elisha made right choices and received a double portion of Elijah’s spirit. 1. Gehazi saw the result in Elisha’s life of his right choices, and he saw the result of his wrong choice. D. I am sure he spent many hours thinking about the man he COULD have been. THE WISDOM OF MAKING RIGHT CHOICES 2 1. Surely every time he saw Elisha, he thought, “I could have had a double portion of your spirit, just as you had a double portion of Elijah’s spirit. Oh, I wish I would have left the money alone.” III. The Power Of Choice A. Romans 5:19 – One choice can alter our destiny. 1. I had to choose between my friends and my reputation or going on with God after I was filled with the Holy Spirit. Joshua 24:15 (KJV) – . . . choose you this day whom ye will serve . . . but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD. 2. I shudder to think how different my life would have been had I not made the right choice. B. If your marriage is in trouble, be sure you make the right choice. 1. Dave had gotten to the point of being very fed up with my attitude and actions. 2. He told me that I had him to the point where he almost could not stand me. 3. Up until that time, I had myself convinced that all of our problems were HIS fault. 4. I made a decision – I asked God to change ME! 5. Too many people DECIDE to give up when their marriage is in trouble. 6. Too many people DECIDE that everything is the other person’s fault, and they refuse to look at themselves. 7. Too many people DECIDE that they are not going to change unless the other person changes first. THE WISDOM OF MAKING RIGHT CHOICES 3 8. These are all decisions that alter destinies. 9. How different would my life be now if I would have said, “Well, buddy, I can’t stand you either, so let’s call it quits”? C. If God is trying to get you to step out and do something that is uncomfortable, be sure you make the right choice. 1. It was very hard for me when God told me to leave my secure job at Life Christian Church and go out alone to the north, south, east and west. 2. God alone knows how scared I was those first few months. 3. But I shudder to think how different my life would have been had I not made the right choice. D. Decisions have a lot of power – POSITIVE or NEGATIVE power! WE MUST MAKE OUR OWN DECISIONS AND BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE DECISIONS WE MAKE. IV. What Can You Do If You Have Made Wrong Choices In The Past? A. Get out of self-pity and start making right choices now. B. Get the chip off your shoulder and start making right choices now. C. Take responsibility for your life and stop living in the deception of excuses. D. Deuteronomy 7:1-2 – Stop making excuses for your enemies and utterly destroy them. E. Stop blaming others for your quality of life. 1. Numbers 21:5 – The Israelites always blamed God and Moses for their problems. THE WISDOM OF MAKING RIGHT CHOICES 4 2. Something in your past may be the reason things are the way they are today, but don’t allow them to become an excuse to stay that way. EVERY RIGHT CHOICE YOU MAKE CHANGES THE RESULT OF A WRONG CHOICE YOU MADE IN THE PAST. V. Choose To Stop Compromising And Serve God With Your Whole Heart. A. I Kings 18:21 – . . . How long will you halt and limp between two opinions? If the Lord is God, follow Him! But if Baal, then follow him . . . B. Romans 12:2 (KJV) – And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind . . . 1. Make a decision to be godly and not worldly. C. We tend to compartmentalize our life, and we have a little religious compartment that we like to keep God in. 1. God will never be satisfied living in one compartment of your life. He wants the run of the WHOLE HOUSE. D. Prior to 1976, I had a little religious compartment and I tried to keep God in it. 1. The result: I was very frustrated and unhappy, had no peace, struggled with everything and everybody, was discontented no matter what I had, etc. 2. I made a radical decision to serve God fully, and my decision seriously altered my lifestyle. E. Many people want their LIFE changed, but not their LIFESTYLE!! F. Perhaps you came to find out how you could change your circumstance, and God actually wants to change everything in your entire life. THE WISDOM OF MAKING RIGHT CHOICES 5 1. That thought frightens most of us. G. Matthew 6:24 (KJV) – No man can serve two masters . . . H. Luke 9:62 (KJV) – . . . No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God. 1. If you are going to serve God, start looking FORWARD, not BACKWARD. 2. Stop trying to mix the old life with the new. Jesus said, “You cannot put new wine into old wineskins.” It will cost you a lot to serve God wholeheartedly – but it will cost you a lot more if you don’t. There is a price to pay, but the dividends are high!! 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