The Book of Pook A Note From The Com​piler In​tro​duc​tion – A Pook Is A Pook! Pook Man’s Ad​vice to a Suf​fer​ing New​bie Fif​teen Les​sons Les​- son One Les​son Two Les​son Three Les​son Four Les​son Five Les​son Six Les​son Seven Les​son Eight Les​son Nine Les​son Ten Les​son El​even Les​son Twelve Les​son Thir​teen Les​son Four​teen Les​son Fif​teen What Every Skinny Guy Should Know Per​fect Is Bor​ing The Secret Of The Jerk Looks or per​son​al​ity? Foun​- tain Of Youth Kill That Des​per​a​tion! Em​brace Your Sexu​al​ity! On Em​bra​cing Sexu​al​ity Elim​in​ate De​sire Or Not? On Shy​ness On The Nature Of Sexu​al​ity Ro​man​ti​cism – An Ob​it​u​ary Let Your​self Fail! Aim High! On Kino What I’ve Learned Ap​- proach​ing Wo​men As You Think, You Shall Be​come Be A Man! Cas​ual Dat​ing Struc​ture Of Worlds Do Girls Want Sov​er​- eignty? Cocky And Funny? Feel​ing Down About Your Love Life? Read This! Fem​in​ism Put On Trial! Good Girls Do Cheat At​ten​tion Whores Habit Is All If Life Seems Hard And Un​- happy, Read This! Why “Let’s Just Be Friends” On Mys​tery Pa​- tience: What Truly Makes A Don Juan Ooh La La! A Second Life Re: Selfish​ness, Life Chan​ging De​cisions etc. Se​cur​it​ies Vs. Mis​takes “SS is AFC” Talk​ing To Girls The Dif​fer​ence Between Dat​ing And Friend​ship Womanese! More Womanese! Even More Womanese! Why Wo​men Men​tion Other Men Even If They’re In​ter​ested In You! Secret To Womanese! More On “You Must Be Gay!” The Keys To The Don Juan To​ward Man​- hood! Wo​men Ini​ti​at​ing Dates On Mar​riage How To Get A Pook To Shut Up Aph​or​isms En​dure! Be​ing Don Juan A Note From The Com​piler Well, see​ing as I’ve de​cided to make this avail​able to you guys I should make a dis​claimer. I’m not a “Pook Wor​ship​per”. He has flaws like every​one else. I ac​tu​ally dis​agree with some of the stuff I’ve put up here, but I want to read it any​way be​cause it has value as a view​point, and hell, maybe I’ll change my mind someday when I be​come wiser and Pook​ier. Pook goes bey​ond simple se​duc​tion and takes us to the big​ger pic​ture, LIFE. Free​dom. He’s ad​dressed some of the anti-Pook is​sues very well in the post I put as the in​tro​duc​tion. I think, simply, that when someone rises to such heights of fame in a cer​tain group, someone will al​ways come up and chal​lenge him for the AR​- ROG​ANCE to be bet​ter than them, which is in this case com​- pletely ima​gined. Any​way, if you’re read​ing this you’re hooked. So stop whin​- ing, you know we all love Pook at heart. Other than that, com​pile your own damn ebook, punk. Feed​back ap​pre​ci​ated. But​ter​cat.apo​ca​[email protected] In​tro​duc​tion – A Pook Is A Pook! http://www.sosuave.net/forum/show​thread.php? t=13101&page=3 The only reason why I'm here at Sosuave is to help my​self. I have ab​so​lutely no in​terest in be​ing an 'au​thor​ity' or 'star poster' or any​thing of the such. I just want to cor​rect my own flaws and dis​cover life. I don't care about the DJ Bible, I don't care about any of the forum mech​an​ics, or the forum cus​todi​ans, or any​- thing of the such. When I do a post, I ba​sic​ally talk to my​self.The post is some​- thing I've found that helps me, that is why it ap​pears in the 'tips' sec​tion. If I wanted to dis​cuss it, it would go in the dis​cus​sion sec​tion. (Many people do not un​der​stand this dis​tinc​tion and start rant​ing on my threads and don't un​der​stand why I don't re​- spond. There's no need to dis​cuss any​thing. The posts end up be​com​ing so long be​cause I already put in the ques​tions within the post.) There is a trend lately where people do not see the posts, they just see 'Pook'. So when a Pook post ap​pears, they go 'pook bait​- ing' (term coined by Ice-pick). A good ex​ample of this is the 'Habit is All' thread. A very simple mes​sage (that provided clar​- ity in my life) but obs​fus​cated by non​sensical replies. My mis​sion is to try to cor​rect the Pook. I ac​tu​ally don't care about any​thing else. Things that help me I put out on the table, since maybe some of you guys have the same prob​lems I did. If the post sounds like Latin to you, then don't con​sider it. We're all here to fix ourselves. Be​cause the fo​cus is on ourselves. I think that was when my Big Change came was when I real​- ized that I was the prob​lem, not the wo​men. That's why I rage against the 'fo​cus on wo​men/con​trolling wo​men/tac​tics' posts (or rather, when they rage at me). The solu​tion to your prob​lems is not in the wo​man but in your​self, but it does take a type of hu​mil​ity to real​ize that YOU are the prob​lem (con​sider the Nice Guy: HE is right and the WORLD/WO​MEN are wrong. He is back​wards. He is wrong and the WO​MEN are right). I've been here for 3-4 years. Look​ing at my past posts, I can see how A leads into B and then to C and so on. For ex​ample, the Kill That Des​per​a​tion post (for me) slammed the door shut on 'tricks' and 'tac​tics'. So what else was there to do? After that came "Be A Man" which seper​ated sexu​al​ity from in​ter​course. This slammed the door on me on all the 'lay re​ports' and all. We are in a habit nowadays of de​fin​ing sexu​al​ity only to mat​ters of sex when, in fact, it goes well bey​ond in​ter​course. Thus, a male and a man are not one but two. Any​one can be an​dro​gen​ous. And be​ing an an​dro​gen​ous is not a vir​tue, and be​- ing mas​cu​line is not a vice. Now, who is it that is say​ing 'man' and 'wo​man' do not ex​ist, in their sexu​al​ized forms? Yes, gender the​or​ists! Gender the​or​ists hold that mas​culin​ity and femin​ity are so​- cially im​posed, in other words, ar​ti​fi​cial. I didn't real​ize they were the source but I did real​ize then that some​thing was off sexu​al​ity wise in our world (the Nice Guys seem, not born, but man​u​fac​tured). So I said, "Be a Man!" I want to free sexu​al​ity from 'just in​ter​course' else the world beocmes an​dro​gen​ous and very dull. In "To​ward's Man​hood", this thought got dealt with more. I ask a group of guys what a guy does that is MALE. The only an​swer they re​peated was 'sex with wo​men'. As big of sup​porter I am of sex​ing wo​men, it shows that sexu​al​ity has been chased away and con​fined to the bed​room. I be​lieve we're en​ter​ing a new Pur​itan age where sexu​al​ity is out​lawed, and al​lowed only through in​ter​course. The idea of a wo​man be​ing fem​in​ine or a man be​ing mas​cu​line drives some people nuts (as if they think they have a right to tell you how you should act!). Life is much more en​joy​able as a mas​cu​line fig​ure than a nerdy an​dro​gen​ous. Now, here is a good ob​ser​va​tion. If sexu​al​- ity is banned from all arenas ex​cept for in​ter​course (where it can​not be banned), what is the res​ult? The res​ult is that so​ci​ety be​comes more an​dro​gen​ous. And the res​ult of that is that sexual in​ter​course be​comes more and more hyped and mo​nu​ment​al​- ized. So your grand​mother was right, in​ter​course is 'more paraded' more than ever (if you out​law one part of hu​man sexu​al​ity, we just fo​cus on the other part. Sexu​al​ity must go some​where.) [Also, the Pleas​antville ana​logy of the Hu​man race not dis​cov​- er​ing sex un​til the 60s is wrong. The 50's and 40's prob​ably had more sex than today. After all, where did the BABY BOOM come from?] We are all worms crawl​ing between heaven and earth. The 'To​wards Man​hood' post went on de​tail​ing the 'heaven link' of Man. The 'Secret of the Jerk' post de​tails the 'earth link' of Man. Per​son​ally, I think the 'To​wards Man​hood' post is a far bet​ter post than 'Secret of the Jerk' (be​cause nowadays, every​one fo​- cuses on the earth link, never on the heaven link) but every​one seems very bent on the 'earth link'. We are all cen​tu​ars and we ride the beast through this world. Both ele​ments, of the beast and the 'mind/soul', ought to be un​- der​stood. What good does it do to cut off the 'heaven ele​ment' and make no dif​fer​ences between us and apes, wolves, dogs, or nor​we​gian rats? Secret of the Jerk II fo​cuses on the 'earth link' of sexu​al​ity be​- ing mor​al​ity whereas Brave New World fo​cuses on the 'heaven link' of sexu​al​ity be​ing mor​al​ity. Both are to be dealt with. Posts like 'Fem​in​ism on Trial' and such is my at​tack on what these Neo Pur​it​ans, these fem​in​ists, are do​ing with sexu​al​ity. I gave up try​ing to fig​ure out 'how to get wo​men' and 'un​der​- stand​ing wo​men' be​cause I kept com​ing back to de​fin​ing men. Just as you can​not define day without de​fin​ing night, so too you can​not define wo​men without de​fnin​ing men. Thus, my fo​cus be​came placed on SEXU​AL​ITY, mean​ing both sexes and the laws that in​flu​ence them. I want to mine the secrets of Nature to see how that can bet​ter my​self. I have no de​sire to be seen as an Or​acle and I des​pise people who see me as one. One thing I still can​not un​der​stand is why people talk of 'Pook' as a per​son. There seems to be a con​test go​ing about who can best psy​cho-ana​lyze the Pook. Alas, I wasn't in​vited to such a con​test and when I say what I am, people don't be​lieve it (!). I tell you ex​actly how I think with my posts. But that is not enough, Pook is either 'this' or 'that'. Con​sider this thread. I pos​ted here be​cause they kept on talk​- ing of Pook, psy​cho​ana​lyz​ing him, etc. etc. That pissed me off as they don't know Pook and I'm the only one who really does. So the speed se​du​cers came after me. They said, "Say​ing 'Be a Man' is not enough! We need prac​tical ad​vice!" Through​out all this, the Secret of the Jerk was on my com​puter (which dealt very much with the 'earth- plane'). I grew tired of all this and just de​cided to post the art​icle. And every​one shut up. Why? Be​cause in​stead of try​ing to un​- der​stand them​selves, they tried to 'un​der​stand Pook'. "Pook is this... Pook is that..." Pook is Pook. What more needs to be said? Con​sider a re​cent ex​ample with PowerEgo. He ac​cused the Pook of be​ing a (oh that term) work​aholic and that I was de​- mand​ing every​one to be​come a work​aholic. I kept talk​ing to him just so he would keep talk​ing, know​ing full well the Foun​- tain of Youth post was on my com​puter. When I grew tired of him, I just pos​ted FoY and that was that. Look at this quote I got from an​other board: Quote: The whole found​a​tion of Pook's cur​rent pre​dic​a​ment is that he has de​hu​man​ised wo​men to the point where he con​- siders them to be grossly in​ferior creatures who are un​- worthy of his com​pany. Un​sur​pris​ingly, that didn't even raise an eye​brow on SS, since that's also the found​a​tion of every other ap​proach to be​ing a playah. Any​one that con​- siders such an at​ti​tude to be 'mas​cu​line' needs to buy a dic​- tion​ary. Just be​cause a wo​man is in​tel​li​gent doesn't make her mas​cu​line - the two are com​pletely un​re​lated. Like​wise, ig​nor​ance and self-de​lu​sional stu​pid​ity are not in the least bit mas​cu​line. Pook has taken a path of quasi-in​tel​lec​tual wank​ing and turned his back on the very Nature that he so vigour​ously pla​gi​ar​ises the clas​sics to cham​pion. These people con​demn the Pook for be​ing an in​tel​lec​tual! (btw, how can you 'pla​gi​ar​ize' the clas​sics? Clas​sics aren't copy​- righted. And I haven't even got​ten STAR​TED on the clas​sics and the know​ledge of sexu​al​ity they hold!) Yet, some people are cur​rently angry at me be​cause I have been busy 'bash​ing' in​tel​lec​tu​als! So which is it, guys? Am I an in​tel​lec​tual or not an in​tel​lec​- tual? As you can ima​gine, this is so comedic as would be worthy of the pen of Mo​liere! Lately, some people say, "Pook is mys​- nomic! He hates wo​men!" Yet, I have series of posts where a youth goes, "Evil wo​men! Evil wo​men!" and paints wo​men as evil and I show that the youth wrong, and that wo​men may very well be the op​pos​ite. All these at​tempts to 'psy​cho-ana​lyze' the Pook are go​ing to be wrong. stop wor​ry​ing about the Pook and worry about yourselves. If you don't like what the Pook says, don't listen to him. "Pook is a big fat egot​ist!" Yet, I have posts de​tail​ing that pro​gress only comes through hu​mil​ity (as one who thinks he knows all the an​swers will never post any​thing new 'since he knows everything'). I have been ac​cused and labeled as everything un​der the sun. What is funny is even when I am truth​ful abotu who I am (like in the Fem​in​ism on Trial thread), people don't be​lieve it and think I'm ly​ing! No, I am who I've said I am. Pook Man’s Ad​vice to a Suf​fer​ing New​bie http://www.sosuave.net/forum/show​thread.php?t=18291 Anti Dump had a meta​phor that I like a lot: You should be free as a bird, flap​ping around, singing, full of joy with life. Wo​men want to ****** the bird and throw it in a cage (cage = com​mittment). When birds try to fly into the cage, wouldn't you think some​- thing is wrong with that bird? After all, who wants a bird that WANTS to be in the cage? No, wo​men want the birds that are FREE, WILD, and BEAU​TI​FUL. They want A GOOD CATCH. Good Catches do not fly into cages. Only wounded or needy birds do. Wo​men aren't com​plic​ated, our feel​ings just get in the way of what we WANT to do rather then what we SHOULD do. We want to rub their feet and build statues of them. We should de​- mand re​spect and re​ward them only for good be​ha​vior. True pas​sion can only be achieved when the man is will​ing to walk away at a mo​ment's no​tice. After all, if you say "I love you!" after a cof​fee date, then the pas​sion is gone be​cause you have shown that you will not walk away. Flowers and gifts should be used as a RE​WARD, not as an item to BUY her af​fec​tions. When a wo​man treats you with in​dif​fer​ence, you chal​lenge her. When a wo​man treats you with dis​respect, you pun​ish her by with​draw​ing your af​fec​tion and time. When a wo​man treats you well with re​spect and the af​fec​tion you want, you re​ward her . I think the solid line of thought that will get you as many girls as you want and keep your re​la​tion​ships bright and fiery is: Do not have de​sire. Of course, be​ing de​sire-less is im​possible. You can go up to any guy and talk, right? You should be able to do the same with wo​men. The only things that are hold​ing you back is 1) Not un​- der​stand​ing wo​men 2) De​sire makes you too nervous and up​- tight. With all the great art​icles at this site and this mes​sage forum, you'll elim​in​ate num​ber 1 quite fast. Num​ber 2 is a bit harder. Some people are nat​ur​als at it (Peak). Oth​ers have to go through a long series of crash and burns, re​jec​tions, and hor​rible re​la​- tion​ships be​fore they real​ize it was their de​sire that made them over​look all flaws and made them act il​lo​gic​ally (Anti-Dump). You should be com​men​ded since MOST men think they are MAS​TERS at ro​mance (every​one thinks they are right about everything). By com​ing here, you are already on the path to be​- com​ing a DON JUAN. Soon, wo​men will tremble with pas​sion in your pres​ence. If you're ser​i​ous about edu​cat​ing your​self, then this site is go​ing to change your life. It did for me. Fif​teen Les​sons http://www.sosuave.net/forum/show​thread.php?t=59150 A young man sat and pondered the next phase of his life. “It is time,” he said, “for a girl​friend.” Yet, this new course in his life seemed both ex​cit​ing and fright​en​ing. “But suc​cess will not come without much fail​ure,” he real​ized. “If only there was a way to avoid the pain​ful tri​als ahead.” And then, like ma​gic, ap​peared a Pook! As like any​one shocked by the sud​den ap​pear​ance of a Pook, he was speech​less. But this happened to be a talk​at​ive Pook who said, “I will guide you. The con​stant heart​break, the loneli​ness, the feel​ing of hav​ing no con​trol- these can be avoided. Fol​low me and I will show you many of the les​sons that must be learned.” “Oh Pook!” the young man cried out. “Would it not be bet​ter to throw my​self into ini​tial er​ror? Is not er​ror the best way to suc​cess?” “No; your heart does not need to be shattered to real​ize its les​sons. Do suc​cess​ful mar​riages come from a series of failed ones? Of course not. For... “Foresight teaches gently; er​ror teaches bru​tally” With that, the young man asked, “And what is the first les​- son?” The Pook replied, “Fol​low and see.” Thus, the young man fol​lowed Pook to a nearby col​lege cam​- pus. Pook then said, “Be​hold, the first ex​ample.” Les​son One A young man, over​flow​ing with de​sire, saw a wo​man he thought was ex​tremely cute. She was simply walk​ing around and was in​volved with her own things. “I should speak to her,” he told him​self. “I must meet her!” But his body would not obey. He stood there, watch​ing her in the corner of his eye, and felt as if he was burn​ing. She even​tu​- ally left and he cursed him​self even more. Then ap​peared an​other wo​man who was even cuter! “I should say hi,” he told him​self. Yet, he stood like a statue and his body felt as if he was burn​ing. “She is out of my league. She would never go for someone like me!” He never ap​- proached and the wo​man left. Yet, an​other wo​man ap​peared more beau​ti​ful than the first two! Some​how, he got him​self to ap​proach. “Hi!” he sputtered nervously. She was pleas​ant. He even​tu​ally asked for the num​- ber to which she said no. Even though he failed, he felt much bet​ter that he tried. “Alas,” he said now real​iz​ing the er​ror of his ways. “Re​jec​tion is bet​ter than Re​gret” “Re​mem​ber,” said Pook. “Change is gradual. Be​fore, you saw no op​por​tun​it​ies. Now, you see them all about you, yet you are too hes​it​ant to take them. You’re slowly be​com​ing more aware.” “What are you say​ing?” “When you find your​self hes​it​ant, al​ways yield to Ac​tion. If you see her, do not wait, gawk or wait for a ‘per​fect mo​ment’. Ac​tion, ac​tion, ac​tion!” “Pook, I can​not. You see... I am in​sec​ure. I don’t have that con​fid​ence!” “You are con​fus​ing CAUSE and EF​FECT. The CAUSE of your hes​it​ant nature is not be​cause of your in​sec​ur​ity. You have not got​ten what you’ve wanted, what you’ve de​sired. THAT is the cause of your hes​it​ant nature.” “What?” “You are caught in the vi​cious cycle. You are hes​it​ant be​cause