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CONTENTS Thank you .........................................................................................................................................................i How to get the most out of this book ..............................................................................................iii The Foundations ...........................................................................................................................................v Prolouge: How to realise your full potential ...................................................................................vi Chapter 1 Seduction Version 3.0 ................................................................................................................................1 Chapter 2 How to become the Man of her dreams .......................................................................................6 Chapter 3 What you haven’t been told about becoming a natural..........................................................15 Chapter 4 Why tring to develop confidence is making you nervous ......................................................24 Chapter 5 Why trying to be Alpha is preventing you from being Alpha ...............................................30 Chapter 6 Why doing affirmations is bad for your congruence .................................................................35 Chapter 7 Is trying to be high value keeping you low value? ......................................................................41 Chapter 8 Escape Plan: The secret backdoor to confidence, value, and status ....................................45 Chapter 9 Why trying to eliminate your limiting beliefs is only making them worse. .....................50 Chapter 10 Why learning pickup is preventing you from picking up women ........................................56 Chapter 11 The ugly truth about approach anxiety ............................................................................................62 Chapter 12 Is learning things to talk about making you run out of things to say? ...............................69 The Attraction Institute Seduction Community Sucks v3.0 Chapter 13 Is learning qualification preventing you from naturally qualifying? ......................................74 Chapter 14 Is learning calibration making you uncalibrated? ..........................................................................79 Chapter 15 The most pointless question you will never answer ..................................................................84 Chapter 16 And now, you have a choice to make ...............................................................................................91 Chapter 17 The real foundations of attraction ......................................................................................................97 Chapter 18 How to become a confidently attractive Man .............................................................................109 Chapter 19 The art of effortless attraction .............................................................................................................113 Chapter 20 How easy do you want this to be? ....................................................................................................123 The Attraction Institute Seduction Community Sucks v3.0 THANK YOU This book has been written for one reason and one reason only – To fix a problem. I still remember being 16-years old, standing in the corridor at my best friend’s house party, watch- ing the girl of my dreams – the girl I had pinned all my hopes on, the girl I thought was the answer to all my problems, the girl I would think about day and night and fantasise about how great our future would be together – follow my best mate into his bedroom with and close the door behind her. And worse than that, I remember feeling completely powerless to do anything about it. I didn’t know what to say or what to do or how to act or how to make her see me as more than just that nice guy who’ll listen to her problems and make her pain go away. I didn’t know how to get her to look at me with those puppy dog eyes. I didn’t know how to get her to touch me in any other way than a polite hug when I felt sad. And more importantly, I didn’t know how to meet any other women so that I could stop relying on her to feel good. Even the idea of approaching a woman I didn’t know was enough to make me completely freeze up with anxiety, let alone actually doing it. And don’t get me started on flirting or seduction… The pain of standing in those bars and those house parties, wishing and hoping that something would change, was very real and very debilitating and has had very real long-term effects on my life... This is why this book was written – No one should have to go through that. No one should have to stand on the sidelines, feeling powerless and weak. No one should have to feel frustrated and stuck because the solution just feels too far outside their grasp. No one should have to feel inadequate and useless because they don’t know what to do. And no one should get stuck with mediocre answers that don’t provide any real solutions and in fact, just reinforce the core problem that’s responsible for their lack of success in the first place. I wrote this book because I wanted to give back. I wrote this book because I wanted to make a dif- ference. I wrote this book because I wanted to make sure that every guy who spends his days and nights, standing on the sidelines wondering if he was just born without some chromosome, could get a real, long term, simple solution to his challenges and barriers. http://www.attractioninstitute.com i The Attraction Institute Seduction Community Sucks v3.0 And by reading this book, you’re helping me do that. So thank you for helping me fulfill that goal. I’m sure that if you take the time to logically consider the ideas and concepts in this book and open your mind to a new way of finding real and powerful solutions to the challenges you’re facing, then you’re going to find the real, long term solutions you’ve been looking for. http://www.attractioninstitute.com ii The Attraction Institute Seduction Community Sucks v3.0 HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS BOOK I want you to think of the biggest sticking points you’re facing in your so-called “game”. They may be not knowing what to say to women, wanting to improve at a faster rate, not being able to escalate, getting stuck in the friend zone, being frozen by approach anxiety, having low confi- dence, phone game, or any combination of the above. Whatever they are, keep them in the front of your mind as you’re reading this book. Keep asking yourself: how can this book help me solve my problems? This is important. Why? Because there are two ways you can read this book and the one you choose will determine how much you get out of it. The first way, and the one that most guys will use to read this book, is to read through this book asking: Is this book right or wrong? They’ll open it up with all their dating and seduction ‘facts’ firmly in the front of their minds, scan through the relevant chapters looking for ideas that prove that what they know is right, and then get frustrated and even angry when they see that there’s nothing in here for them. But worse than that, they’ll walk away, still struggling with the same problem, still thinking that they just need to read more and watch more DVD’s and take more overhyped, 3 day, intensive boot camps and internalise or practice or suppress their desires, thoughts, and feelings long enough to get a drunk and gullible woman to sleep with them, without ever seeing that there’s an easier and simpler way. Then there’s the second way, and the way that only a small percentage of commited, open-minded, inquisitive guys will take. They’ll read through ‘Seduction Community Sucks’ asking: How can I find a real solution to my problems? They’ll open it up with their personal challenges and issues stuck firmly in the front of their mind, constantly searching for a real solution that means they don’t have to lie and pretend and fake their way into a woman’s bed. And best of all, because they’re willing to challenge the standard surface level, fake-it-till-you-make- it mentality and look beyond the same rehashed ‘Band-Aid’ solutions currently available, they’ll find the real solution they’re looking for. http://www.attractioninstitute.com iii The Attraction Institute Seduction Community Sucks v3.0 The reason this is so important is that ‘Seduction Community Sucks’ isn’t like any other book. You’re not going to find the same inadequate, short-term ‘quick-fixes’ that litter other PUA manuals, reorganized into a different format. What you’re about to read is something completely different. You’re going to see the real core of your lack of success with women, how blindly following sur- face level, fake and manipulative PUA advice is never going to fix it, and the only thing you need to change to start having the kind of success that you’re looking for. And if you just read through this book trying to confirm that everything you know about picking up women is already correct, you’re going to miss it. In fact, you’ll probably hate this book because it won’t agree with anything you’ve read (but funnily enough, will probably agree with everything you know on an intuitive level but haven’t been able to put into words). So, before you start this book, ask yourself a question: What do I want to get out of this? If you just want to confirm everything you’ve already read in 20 other PUA handbooks about how to pretend to be the kind of Man that women desire (but hasn’t gotten you the results you want), then that’s totally fine. It’s a necessary part of everyone’s journey (and something I went through myself), but I highly recommend you put this book down now because you’re just going to waste your time. But if you’re ready to move on from hollow band-aid solutions and find something that means you can attract high quality, in demand, confident women without having to sacrifice your morals, beliefs, or personality, and are looking for a REAL solution, then definitely read on. http://www.attractioninstitute.com iv The Attraction Institute Seduction Community Sucks v3.0 THE FOUNDATIONS Any philosophy is built upon a series of assumptions. Every single one. It’s not possible to develop a philosophy without them. Some people can’t see this because they claim that their assumptions are ‘truth’ and ‘real’ and ‘fact’, but I’m not that naïve. I’m quite happy to admit that the way I see the world is just one way of seeing the world and that I make very wide and sweeping assumptions in my reality. To help you understand what those assumptions are, and to avoid any potential confusion, I’ve written a full list of them here: The 10 Truths of The Attraction Institute The reason I’m posting it as a link and not as content in the book is that as I discover more about my reality and how I see the world, I’ll be updating that list to make sure everything is spelled out clearly and simply. Take some time to read through them and understand where this book is coming from. It’ll help make sure you don’t end up with extra confusion. http://www.attractioninstitute.com v