MONICA SELES OVERCOMING ADVERSITY MONICA SELES Rose Blue and Corinne J. Naden Introduction by James Scott Brady, Trustee,the Center to Prevent Handgun Violence Vice Chairman,the Brain Injury Foundation Chelsea House Publishers Philadelphia Frontispiece:Monica Seles flashes a smile after another victory. The superstar has fought through many catastrophes during her career, including a stabbing in 1993. CHELSEA HOUSE PUBLISHERS EDITORINCHIEF Sally Cheney DIRECTOROFPRODUCTION Kim Shinners PRODUCTIONMANAGER Pamela Loos ARTDIRECTOR Sara Davis SENIOREDITOR LeeAnne Gelletly PRODUCTIONEDITOR Diann Grasse COVERDESIGNER Keith Trego LAYOUT 21st Century Publishing and Communications,Inc. © 2002 by Chelsea House Publishers,a subsidiary of Haights Cross Communications. All rights reserved. Printed and bound in the United States of America. First Printing 1 3 5 7 9 8 6 4 2 The Chelsea House World Wide Web address is http://www.chelseahouse.com CIP applied for ISBN 0-7910-5899-9 (HC) CONTENTS On Facing Adversity James Scott Brady 7 1 THE COMEBACK 11 2 RISING STAR 17 3 AMATEUR STATUS 33 4 GOING PRO 39 5 “TERRORAND PAIN” 53 6 THE DARKNESS OF DEPRESSION 61 7 RALLY 71 8 STILL GOING FOR THE GRAND SLAM 85 Chronology 96 Career Statistics 98 Further Reading 99 Appendix 100 Index 101 OVERCOMING ADVERSITY TIM ALLEN MOHANDAS K. GANDHI JACKIE ROBINSON comedian/performer political/spiritual leader baseball legend MAYA ANGELOU WHOOPI GOLDBERG ROSEANNE author comedian/performer entertainer APOLLO 13 MISSION EKATERINA GORDEEVA MONICA SELES astronauts figure skater tennis star LANCE ARMSTRONG SCOTT HAMILTON SAMMY SOSA professional cyclist figure skater baseball star DREW BARRYMORE JEWEL DAVE THOMAS actress singer and poet entrepreneur DREW CAREY JAMES EARL JONES SHANIA TWAIN comedian/performer actor entertainer JIM CARREY QUINCY JONES ROBIN WILLIAMS comedian/performer musician and producer performer BILL CLINTON MARIO LEMIEUX BRUCE WILLIS U.S. president hockey legend actor TOM CRUISE ABRAHAM LINCOLN STEVIE WONDER actor U.S. president entertainer GAIL DEVERS JOHN MCCAIN TRIUMPH OF Olympian political leader THE IMAGINATION: The story of writer MICHAEL J. FOX WILLIAM PENN J. K. Rowling actor Pennsylvania’s founder ON FACING ADVERSITY James Scott Brady I GUESS IT’Sa long way from a Centralia,Illinois,train yard to the George Washington University Hospital Trauma Unit. My dad was a yardmas- ter for the old Chicago, Burlington & Quincy Railroad. As a child, I used to get to sit in the engineer’s lap and imagine what it was like to drive that train. I guess I always have liked being in the “driver’s seat.” Years later, however, my interest turned from driving trains to driv- ing campaigns. In 1979, former Texas governor John Connally hired me as a press secretary in his campaign for the American presidency. We lost the Republican primary to a former Hollywood star named Ronald Reagan. But I managed to jump over to the Reagan campaign. When Reagan was elected in 1980,I was “sitting in the catbird seat,”as humorist James Thurber would say—poised to be named presidential press secretary. I held that title throughout the eight years of the Rea- gan administration. But not without one terrible,extended interruption. It happened barely two months after the Reagan administration took office. I never even heard the shots. On March 30, 1981, my life went blank in an instant. In an attempt to assassinate President Reagan,John Hinckley Jr. armed himself with a “Saturday night special”—a low- quality,$29 pistol—and shot wildly as our presidential entourage exit- ed a Washington hotel. One of the exploding bullets struck me just above the left eye. It shattered into a couple dozen fragments,some of which penetrated my skull and entered my brain. 7 INTRODUCTION The next few months of my life were a nightmare of repeated surgery, broken contact with the outside world, and a variety of med- ical complications. More than once, I was very close to death. The next few years were filled with frustrating struggles to function with a paralyzed right side, struggles to speak and communicate. To people who face and defeat daunting obstacles,“ambition”is not becoming wealthy or famous or winning elections or awards. Words like “ambition” and “achievement” and “success” take on very differ- ent meanings. The objective is just to live, to wake up every morning. The goals are not lofty; they are very ordinary. My own heroes are ordinary folks—but they accomplish extraordi- nary things because they try. My greatest hero is my wife,Sarah. She’s accomplished a lot of things in life, but two stand out. The first has been the way she has cared for me and our son since I was shot. A tremendous tragedy and burden was dropped unexpectedly into her life, totally beyond her control and without justification. She could have given up; instead, she focused her energies on preserving our family and returning our lives to normal as much as possible. Week by week, month by month, year by year, she has not reached for the miraculous,just for the normal. Yet in focusing on the normal,she has helped accomplish the miraculous. Her other most remarkable accomplishment,to me,has been spear- heading the effort to keep guns out of the hands of criminals and chil- dren in America. Opponents call her a “gun grabber”; I call her a national hero. And I am not alone. After a seven-year battle,during which Sarah and I worked tireless- ly to educate the public about the need for stronger gun laws,the Brady Bill became law in 1993. It was a victory, achieved in the face of tremendous opposition,that now benefits all Americans. From the time the law took effect through fall 1997, background checks had stopped 173,000 criminals and other high-risk purchasers from buying hand- guns, and the law has helped to reduce illegal gun trafficking. Sarah was not pursuing fame,or even recognition. She simply start- ed at one point—when our son, Scott, found a loaded handgun on the seat of a pickup truck and, thinking it was a toy, pointed it at Sarah. 8 INTRODUCTION Fortunately, no one was hurt. But seeing a gun nearly bring a second tragedy upon our family,Sarah became determined to do whatever she could to prevent senseless death and injury from guns. Some people think of Sarah as a powerful political force. To me, she’s the person who so many times fed me and helped me dress dur- ing my long years of recovery. Overcoming obstacles is part of life, not just for people who are challenged by disabilities,illnesses,or tragedies,but for all people. No matter what the obstacle—fear, disability, prejudice, grief, or a diffi- culty that isn’t likely to “just go away”—we can all work to make this world a better place. 9