MUH{A>SABAH AND SEDONA METHOD (A Comparative Studies) THESIS This Final Project is Submitted to the Ushuluddin Faculty in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Islamic Psychology In Tasawuf Psikoterapi Department LINA LATHIFAH Reg. Number : 094411044 SPECIAL PROGRAM OF USHULUDDIN FACULTY STATE INSTITUTE OF ISLAMIC STUDIES (IAIN) WALISONGO SEMARANG 2013 ADVISOR APPROVAL Dear Sir, Dean of Ushuluddin Faculty State Institute of Islamic Studies (IAIN) Walisongo Semarang Assala>mu’alaikum Wr. Wb. After correcting it to whatever extent necessary, we state that this thesis belongs to a student as below: Name : Lina Lathifah Reg. Number : 094411044 Department : Tasawuf Psikoterapi (TP) Title : Muh}a>sabah and Sedona Method (A Comparative Studies) Is ready to be submitted in joining last examination. Wassala>mu’alaikum Wr. Wb. Semarang, June 7, 2013 Academic Advisor I Academic Advisor II DR. H. Abdul Muhaya, MA Ahmad Afnan Anshori, MA, M. Hum NIP. 196210181991011001 NIP.197708092005011003 ii RATIFICATION This paper was examined by two experts and passed on June 20, 2013. Therefore, this paper is accepted as one of requirements for fulfilling Undergraduate Degree of Islamic Psychology. Dean of Ushuluddin Faculty/ Chairman of Meeting Dr. Machrus, M.Ag NIP. 19630105 199001 1 002 Academic Advisor I Examiner I Dr. H. Abdul Muhaya, M.A Dr. H . Hasyim Muhammad, M. Ag NIP. 19621018 199101 1 001 NIP. 19720315 199703 1 002 Academic Advisor II Examiner II A. Afnan Anshori, M.A, M.Hum Dr. H. M. Mukhsin Jamil, M.Ag NIP. 19770809 200501 1 003 NIP. 19700215 199703 1003 Secretary of Meeting Dr. Sulaiman Al Kumayi, M. Ag NIP. 19730627 200312 1003 iii DECLARATION I declare that this thesis is definitely my own work. I am completely responsible for content of this thesis. Other writer’s opinions or findings included in the thesis are quoted or cited in accordance with ethical standards. Semarang, June 3, 2013 The Writer, LINA LATHIFAH Reg. Number: 094411044 iv MOTTO ! ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ ََََ$$$$ااااﺮﺮﺮﺮََََََََﻓﻓﻓﻓووووََََ ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ ﻤﻤﻤﻤِِِِ ﻘﻘََﻘﻘََ ﺳﺳﺳﺳََََ ﻞﻞﻞﻞََََ ////ََََْْْْﻗﻗﻗﻗ ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ َﺘَﺘَﺘَﺘﲱﲱﲱﲱ2222 ِِِِ ووووََََ ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ ِﺗِﺗِﺗِﺗﻮﻮﻮﻮْْْْ ﻣﻣﻣﻣََََ ﻞﻞﻞﻞََََ ////ََََْْْْﻗﻗﻗﻗ ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ ََََﺗﺗﺗﺗﺎﺎﺎﺎََ88ََ88ﺣﺣﺣﺣََََ :::: ﺲﺲﺲﺲِِِِ ﲬﲬﲬﲬََََْْْْ ﻞﻞﻞﻞََََ ////ًًًًْْْْﻗﻗﻗﻗ ﺎﺎﺎﺎﺴﺴﺴﺴًًًً ﲬﲬﲬﲬََََْْْْ ﲌﲌﲌﲌْْْْ ِِِِﺘﺘََﺘﺘََ ْﻏْﻏْﻏْﻏاااإٕٕٕ ك ك ك كََََ ﺮﺮﺮﺮِِِِ ﻘﻘﻘﻘََََْْْْﻓﻓﻓﻓ ﻞﻞﻞﻞََََ ////ََْْْْﻗَﻗَﻗﻗ ككككََََ ﺎﺎﺎﺎََﻨَﻨَﻨﻨﻏﻏﻏﻏِِِِ ووووََََ ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ ﻣﻣﻣﻣِِِِﺮﺮﺮﺮََََﻫﻫﻫﻫََََ ﻞﻞﻞﻞََََ ////ََْْْْﻗَﻗَﻗﻗ ﻚﻚﻚﻚََََ ََََﺑﺑﺑﺑﺎﺎﺎﺎَﺒَﺒَﺒَﺒ''''ﺷﺷﺷﺷََََ ووووََََ ))))ََََ ِِِِ ﻐﻐﻐﻐْْْْ ﺷﺷﺷﺷُُُُ ﻞﻞﻞﻞََََ ////ََْْْْﻗَﻗَﻗﻗ Take advantage of five (state) before (the coming) five (another state) : your life before your dead, your healthy before your pain, your free time before your busy time, your youth before your old age, your rich before your poor* ! * Muhammad Nashiruddin Al Albani, Shahih Jami’ as Shaghir Buku 1, Translated by Imran Rasadi and Andi Arlin, Najla Press, Jakarta, 2004, p. 474 v DEDICATION This thesis is dedicated to: ! My dear parents, Mr. H. Ali Syafi’i and Mrs. Shobiroh My beloved sisters, Ulya and Azqi I do everything for the happiness of you all ! My big family, Bani Popi ! My dear partner, Ali Maftukin, S. H.I Hopefully you always by my side ! And all of people who love to study vi PREFACE !"ــــــــ$%&ا )*ــــــــــ$%&ا ﷲ !ــــــــ,- Alḥamdulilla>hirabbil’a>lamīn, all praises and thanks always give to Allāh SWT The Almaighty who has given His grace and guidance, so that writer able to finish the last task, that is thesis entitled: Muḥa>sabah and Sedona Method (A comparative studies). Blessings and greetings are extended to the great majesty Prophet Muḥammad and his family, his friends, and all his followers who has guide people from the time of ignorance toward the full of grace era. The writer learned a lot of patience in his struggle. He was the most perfect figure and the only one that deserves to be a role model. The writer ackknowladge that this writing will not be resolved on time if there is no help, support, and prayers of all parties. Therefore, the writer conveys the highest appreciation to: 1. My dear parents, Mr. H. Ali Syafi’i and Mrs. Shobiroh who never stop praying for me, who never tired of giving affection and love, who patiently paying attention, and who always advise gently. Then for my beatiful and great sisters, Ulya and Azqi. You are my everything in my life. I do love you 2. The Dean of Ushuluddin Faculty, Dr. Nashihun Amin, M.Ag who has given permission to the writer to do this research. And the writer do not forget say thanks to the vices dean, who has provided adequate learning facilities. 3. My thesis advisors Dr. H. Abdul Muhaya, M.A and Ahmad Afnan Anshori, MA, M. Hum. They have guided with patience and sincerity, they have been encouraging and guiding as a teacher as well as father. 4. Dr. Sulaiman Al Kumayi, M.Ag and Fitriyati, S.Psi, M.Si as chairman and secretary of Tasawuf Psikoterapi Department. I thankful for the guidance and motivation is given to me. vii 5. All of my teachers and my lecturers, have educated me with patience and love. There is no reward for it all, just a prayer for you, may Allah gives blessings for you in the world until hereafter. 6. The Ministry of Religious Affairs RI for the scholarships provide to me during take education S1 in State Institute of Islamic Studies Walisongo Semarang. 7. My friends in the female dormitory Dārul Qur’ān who become a family when I far from my parents, who have graced my days for taking education S1 in Semarang. You have been with me when my tears fall, when my feet are tired, when there was no smile on my lips. Many unforgettable stories with you. Much of thanks and love for you all, espesially for Jeparanita, Mbak Fe, Mizky, Mbak Nabil, Mbak Nikmah. Special thanks are also given to Mbak Husnul, Mbak Muniroh, Mbak Tri, Mbak Anis, Mbak Ayu, Berbi (mbak Muslimah), Mbak Ama, Mbak Uji, Mbak Lutfi, Mbak Jikati, Mbak Fitri, Mbak Nada, Bunda, Mbak Arin, and Mbak Us. 8. Friends in courses of Islamic studies of Religious Affairs RI in Tafsir Hadith and Tasawuf Psikoterapi Department of Ushuluddin faculty. I will not forget every moment with you all. Mumun, Sugie, Bang Akrom, Bang Yasin, Kakak Latif, Lukman, Akhy Baha’, Pak Lurah, Kakak Ifu, Rofiq, Bang Kaji Nadhif, Lek Misbah, Mbah Saifudin Moro, Rozak, and Bang Zalil, thank you so much for your helps. It is honor to be your part. 9. All of my friends in KMJS (Trus Karya Tataning Bumi), and HMI, especially for Commisariat Iqbal who has give me a lot of valuable experince about organization. Especially for my seniors, Mas Afu, Mas Fatah, and Mas Ayis. YAKUSA. 10. My family of KKN, who gives a lot of meaning of love, tegetherness, and solidarity. Especially for Mr. H. Sugiran and family, they are my new family. Thanks to all of my friends, Bunda Raisya, Mas Royyan, Mas Shofyan, Mas Ma’sum, Mas Arifin, Mala, Alfin, Mbak Inna, Mbak Aat, Dek Mul, Mami Ulil, and special thanks for Mas Reza, be ready for next story. viii 11. Mbak Risa and mbak Tri. Thank you for guiding me in the first in semarang, You inspire me. hopefully success and happiness always be with you 12. My dear partner, Ali Maftukin, S. H.I who always accompany me in happy and sorrow. I want you to be the only one in my life. May God bless us. Heartfelt thanks for all your kindness may Allah SWT repay all of kindness with a better response in the world and in the hereafter. Semarang, June 3, 2013 Writer, LINA LATHIFAH Reg. Number: 094411044 ix TRANSLITERATION* VOWEL LETTERS a> a long spelling i< i long spelling u> u long spelling ARABIC LETTER WRITTEN NAME ا No symbol Alif ب B ba ت T Ta ث s\ s\a ج J Jim ح h{ h}a خ Kh Kha د D Dal ذ z\ z\al ر R Ra ز Z Zai س S Sin ش Sy Syin ص s} s}ad ض d{ d{ad ط t} t{a ظ z{ z}a ع ‘ ‘ain غ G Gain ف F Fa ق Q Qaf ك K Kaf ل L Lam م M Mim ن N Nun و W Wau ـھ H Ha ي Y Ya * Quoted from Pedoman Penulisan Skripsi, Fakultas Ushuluddin IAIN Walisongo, Semarang, 2007, p.112-113 x