How To Flirt With Women The Secret Flirting "Codes" That Make Her Beg To Be With You By Matt Flynn Copyright © 2013 Matt Flynn All Rights Reserved. Wait! Before you continue… Are You Hopeless With Women? Can’t get a date? Can’t ask women out? Not confident around them? Some guys have it, some guys don’t. That is just the way the world is. However, if you are the type of guy that just can’t get a girl to go out with you, date you or even talk to you, now there is no reason that you can’t change that. Women are emotional creatures. Regardless of what you look like or what you do, confidence, the things you say and do can make any woman weak at her knees, if you do it right. Get Instant Access To 3 Amazing 'Dating for Men' Reports and Start Attracting Beautiful Women Now! www.seductionsorcery.com/men Boosting your self-confidence – It is easier than you think! 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While every attempt has been made to verify the information provided in this report, neither the authors nor their affiliates/partners assume any responsibility for errors, inaccuracies or omissions. Table of Contents CHAPTER 1: Learning the Language of Flirting and How it Will Help You Play the Dating Game CHAPTER 2: Learning How to Create that Fun and Flirty Vibe in an Instant CHAPTER 3: Getting From Verbal Flirting to Physical Flirting and Fast! CHAPTER 4: Building Magnetic Attraction CHAPTER 5: How to Captivate Her Attention with Story Telling CHAPTER 6: Staying out of the “Friend Zone” CHAPTER 7: The Ten Qualities that Women Love CHAPTER 8: Playing the Flirting Games: How to Have Her Begging to See You ASAP Bonus: Learning How to Flirt via Text Message Where To From Here? FREE Bonus Offer Dear Reader, First of all I want to offer you my sincerest congratulations for taking the first step in a series of positive steps that you will need to take in order to take control of your dating life. The things which you will learn here about women and about dating are things that I guarantee you most men in the entire world will NEVER learn about their female counterparts. You are given knowledge and information about the biggest secrets women have. This includes information on how women think. It includes information on what attracts women. It also includes information on how you can show the woman around you that you are a great catch and they should stand up and take notice. The book contains information on how to approach a woman as well as how to talk to her (or not talk to her) and then how to keep her hooked as you start to date her. There are dating tips in here that most men would literally kill to have. At this point you might be curious as to how all of these secrets—and there seem to be a lot of them —can be contained here in this short and simple ebook. And if this is true then why is it that all men do not have access to them? Why are these secrets not well known if they can fit here? Well the answer is that most men do not have the secrets because they assume that the things they have done over and over in life and made a routine are the way things should be done. This is not just true of the dating world but also true of money management as well as the way people take care of their relationships and themselves. If you were taught that left is right and right is left you might live your entire life that way without questioning it because—after all—it was the way you were taught. I am sure that you are aware at this point that people will not go out of their way to find information about any subject if they already think that they have enough information to get the results they want. But then what happens when your methods stop producing the results that you so desire? What happens when you realize that as you get older your methods are not working for you in the same manner? Well at this point you have one of two choices. First you can choose to continue in your habits and keep doing whatever you are doing even if you know it isn’t working well for you and just expect different results. Or second you can look for new data or new information that can help you change your existing habits and make better choices in the future. Of course the first of these options is quite bad but the second shows a good sign of your character. And picking up this book is one of those good signs! Bear in mind that most men continue with the first (and bad) option. They might even do this for the rest of their lives even if it does not give them the results they want. There might be men who have picked up this book and are already reading it while the thought “What idiot needs a book to tell them how to date?” The irony to this thought is that it is the exact reason why almost ALL men FAIL to learn the most effective and simple strategies for dating which you will uncover in this book. But this bodes well for you because it means that you will have the skills to snatch up women right from under the Neanderthal men who laugh at reading such material (there is more on this topic later in the book) You could have picked up this book because you decided that it is high time you set aside your ego and just accept the simple fact that you may not know as much as you would like on dating and that you can always stand to learn more about relating to the fairer sex. Or maybe you just had a bad break up or suffered through a divorce and now you want to learn more about the dating game. Or perhaps you just want to find a higher caliber of women with whom to associate and you realized that there may be better methods of doing this than the ones you are currently using. Whatever reason you have for finding out more about how the dating game is play you will learn a lot from this book. You will learn to expound upon the lessons that life has already taught you as soon as you open up this book. Soon you will see a variety of dating options unfold at your fingertips. Happy dating! Enjoy. CHAPTER 1: Learning the Language of Flirting and How it Will Help You Play the Dating Game Have you ever felt that trying to talk to a woman is impossible at times because she seems to be speaking a different language? You are not alone. Women are much different. They don’t like the direct approach men often use because it lacks romance and mystery. They want the chase more than we do and they want to be left guessing—all those things men don’t typically have time for. Men just want to get everything out on the table and get it over and done with. Go out. Find the woman. Bring her back home. We think about the bottom line and we treat dating like business. When we know what we want we don’t want to try and indirectly communicate it or play games. Do you know what I’m saying? Sadly… women are the exact opposite. They are fragile little creatures who want some cat and mouse game. They want mystery and they want romance. Flirting for them should be a “code” and they should have to read between the lines. They want us to do the same thing! Uggg! What a waste of time! Why aren’t there just women out there who know what they want? Why do they need to be mysterious all the time and why do we have to flirt incognito? Whatever the reason if you do not learn to speak their romantic and indirect language you will be left alone at the bar while the woman with whom you were talking heads off in search for someone who does play the game. Women want that “spark”. They want to feel the anxiety and the tension associated with romance and the “magic” of the guess game. In other words: Men’s direct approach will not work for them. It only works on men. If you want to speak with women you will need to leave that direct business to yourself and your male friends and start speaking their language. As soon as you accept that women need indirect and romantic games you will see your dating life transform. So how to get into the game of flirting? CHAPTER 2: Learning How to Create that Fun and Flirty Vibe in an Instant The first step in flirting with women is making sure you start on the right foot. Your first impression will establish the pace for the remainder of your interaction. Therefore you need to follow some basic rules from the beginning in order to build the romance they want and keep the mystery. Rule #1: Don’t show off your interest. Women do not want you to walk up and make a declaration that you are interested in them. That is boring. Besides—they already know. And how do they know? Because you are showing interest by talking to them… that is a big enough sign. If you try and go out of your way to tell them you are interested directly it kills the romance. Men are completely different from women in terms of social conduct. Women will talk to any guy or girl about anything. Even strangers. Guys will only talk to people if there is a reason. Therefore if you are talking to a girl you are interested. Rule #2: Get the flirty vibe going. You want to use humor as a way to start the flirty vibe. You want to seem playful but you also want her to continue to wonder whether or not you actually like her. You can actually create sexual tension when you create an atmosphere where she comes back at your comments with some jabs of her own. This is simple psychology. Arousal is arousal is arousal. This is why you might have had some of the best sex after a major fight. Because any friction can create arousal. Rule #3: Confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. Nothing is sexier to a woman than you being confident. While it might help your chances to have a lot of money or big muscles you can still land a smart and sexy woman without those things so long as you are confident. The amount of confidence you have is built from your interaction and the amount of attraction you can build with that woman. Part of being confident is making eye contact. Another part is having good posture. Be sure to use her name when you are talking to her. Lastly it is important to put on an enthusiastic tone. If you sound bored she will think you are. Now you need to make these things a normal part of your personality. They need to flow as easily as a smile. They need to be genuine. That genuine confidence comes at putting a high value on who you are as a person. You can’t fake this. She will see through it quickly. You have to develop this confidence by walking up to each new interaction with the mindset that it doesn’t matter whether or not she is attracted to you. The less you care the better. Tell yourself that you need nothing from her and it does not matter if she likes you. This is where true confidence begins to develop. It seems like a counterproductive idea but it isn’t. It will give you the inner confidence you need to play the indirect flirting game women love—without continually second guessing yourself and checking on how well you are doing. Finally be sure to take it to a physical level as quickly as possible.