Get the Girl Dominate Her minD, Heart, anD BoDy BoBBy rio roB JudGe White-hot AttrAction MAnifesto Briefing What you’re about to read isn’t nice. It isn’t po- litically correct. And it should be used with cau- tion. The tactics, techniques, and mind-control strat- egies detailed in this manifesto have one pur- pose and one purpose only: so you get that “one girl.” It’s not a guide on approaching. It’s not a guide on dating multiple women or how to get a supermodel girlfriend. This is solely for a girl you already know, and whom you desire. Maybe you want to make her your girlfriend. Maybe you want to fuck her. Maybe you just want to see what she looks like naked. Whatever your reason, that’s your business. Our business is to make sure you succeed. 2 3 Who To Use This On As we already mention, your aim should be a girl you already know. Who does that in- clude? • A girl who put you in the “friend zone” • A girl in your social circle you are acquainted with • A girl you went on a date with, but she lost interest afterwards • A girl in your class or workplace • A girl who went to high school or col- lege with, and remain in contact (even through social media) • A girl you think you’ve messed it up with in the past Now, obviously this manifesto will work bet- ter on certain situations than others. If you’re using this on a girl who vaguely knows you, 3 4 then your chances are better than if you’re using it on a girl you’ve gone on a date with, and already messed things up. There’s only ONE type of girl this will NOT work on… An ex-girlfriend! If you’ve already had sex with her, then this manifesto will be ineffective. The reason why is too complicated to explain, but it involves the way the female psyche works. So if you’re trying to win your ex back, I’d look elsewhere for answers. For everyone else, read on… 5 The 5 White- Hot Attrac- tion Phases Undoing an impression a woman has of you is absolutely possible, but it happens in very specific way. Just as most women make a de- cision to sleep with a guy based on certain emotions, or to meet a guy for a date based on certain emotions (which is the basis of the Key-Lock Sequence from Magnetic Mes- saging), girls can change their perception of you based on a certain progression of emo- tions. If you think about it, you know this is true. Think about your own perception of things. Maybe you once hated coffee, or beer, or seafood, but now you love. Our perceptions of things can do a complete 180 if we’re ex- posed to certain experiences around those 6 emotions. But the “experiences” we experience are particular. For the purpose of this manifes- to, we’ve color-labeled them to help you re- member the progression (and correspond- ing color). Here they are (in order): Black Phase—You must go totally “off her radar” for a period of time to “re- set” her emotions Blue Phase—You must confuse her per- ception of you through “pattern inter- rupts” Orange Phase—You must bait her inter- est and attention by using tension and “unresolved sentiment” Green Phase—You must tantalize her with directed emotional detachment Red Phase—You must get her alone, 7 one-on-one, and get physical with her (this is the climax of the progression) White Phase—You must “debrief” her to begin a fresh relationship (regard- less of what you want that relationship to be) If you’re confused reading over this progres- sion, don’t worry. We’ll definite each stage, and exactly what to do, in this manifesto. For now, just get acquainted with the gist of what you’re doing. These “color phases” allow you to slowly amplify the chemistry between you and a woman, effectively re-opening the door for you to make your move. It’s fast. It’s swift. It’s strategic. Much like a NAVY SEALs operation, you 8 know exactly what your objectives are for each phase. It’s up to you, however, to carry them out. And, like a SEALs mission, we’re only giving you the objective. We’re not giv- ing you magic potions. If you think you can just recite some “mag- ic words” or punch-in some copy-and-paste messages like you’re unlocking a passcode, then you’re mistaken. While you will be re- ceiving specific instructions, with specific directions (including how long each phase should take), don’t think of this as a “magic solution.” Instead, accept your mission like a NAVY SEAL! Resolve yourself right now to get in there and carry out the best damn mission you can! If you’re excited and motivated to get that “one girl,” then you should be will- ing to put in the sweat and patience to ac- complish your mission! So let’s get started! 9 1. Phase: Black Duration: Exactly 21 Days Objective: “Reset” her emotions by going off her radar Pitfalls to Avoid: “Over-gaming” Black Phase Step 1: Back Off (Duration: 7 Days) Guys make the mistake of “over-gaming” all the time. The definition of “over-gaming” is the idea that you need to do “more” to at- tract or seduce a woman. This is especially deadly in a situation where you’re already coming from behind with a girl. The kneejerk reaction of most guys when they “mess up” with a girl is to do more. They want the right thing to say or do to get back in a girl’s good graces. It’s like a kid with a scab on his arm that can’t stop picking at it. Even though he knows he shouldn’t, some- how he finds himself picking at the scab again and again, which just makes it worse. Likewise, most guys “know” they should just 10 remove themselves from the situation. Yet their desperation, insecurity, and pride in always being “right” prevail, and it leads to guys to over-gaming women. So step one in any situation where you’re trying to win a girl back over is this: BACK OFF. Remove yourself from any contact with her for 7 straight days. Not only should you not directly contact her, you shouldn’t even THINK of her. Don’t check her Facebook. Don’t reread her texts to you. Don’t try to put yourself in situations where you’ll see her. This may should unnecessary, yet I assure you: it’s absolutely crucial. To remedy a sit- uation with a girl, you need to work from the inside out—meaning you need to master your OWN emotions before you master hers. Step one of the black phase requires you re- move ANY inkling of contact with the wom- an you’re trying to seduce. No excuses. Em- bark on a new hobby or a distraction if you need to, but don’t let her cross your mind 11 during these 7 days. Not even once. Black Phase Step 2: Let Go (Duration: 7 Days) As strange as it sounds, the “Black Phase” is very difficult for many guys even though it requires they do NOTHING. The reason the “silent treatment” is so difficult is because most men are somewhat narcissistic. In oth- er words, we believe that we’re the center of the universe and so we always need to be “in control.” And don’t think this sort of “narcissism” is limited to arrogant guys only. It’s also symp- tomatic of insecure guys, as well. Only a man who’s insecure would feel that he must con- trol every reaction and every situation. The idea of always needing to “game” women is a huge red flag that you’re a narcissist (and it’s hurting your chances with women). Much of “traditional” pickup theory espous- es this “always be in control” mentality…and it’s not going to help you get that “one girl.” Though, to alleviate yourself of the fatal flaw 12 of “over-gaming,” you must learn to let go. By let go, I mean you need to remove your- self from wanting to control the outcome, wanting to control the situation, wanting to control anything. You need to adopt this personal mantra: If I make the right moves, I trust that the chips will fall as they may. With women (and with life) that’s really all you can hope for: a fair shot. If you make the right moves, you can’t expect always to win. You can only expect to get a fair shot. Over the next 7 days, continue to avoid con- tact, but also try and detach yourself from the outcome. Remind yourself of all the rea- sons it may not work with her. Remind your- self that you don’t need anything from her. In fact, try to convince yourself why you’d almost be BETTER OFF not “getting” her. Now, you don’t have to give up on your girl by any means; however, you should give up on the idea of thinking you “need” her. Once 13 you “let go,” you’re free. And it’s only when you’re “free” that you’ll have your best shot of seducing her. Black Phase Step 3: Hit Reset (Duration: 7 Days) Once you pull yourself “out of the game” for a breather, you hopefully will gain some al- titude. You’ll see things from a higher, more detached vantage point. Hopefully you’ll pinpoint exactly what you did wrong, and what you could have done right. As you’re assessing your situation, if you’re remaining “silent” (and not over-gaming), a woman’s emotions are “resetting.” In other words, you’re “growing” a second chance. If you’ve followed the first two steps, it should be about 2 weeks since you last had ANY contact with her. You should feel assured that by giving her space that her negative emotions have died down, and you’ll get (an- other) fair shot at her. But remember: hitting that reset button is all about letting go of trying to control the 14 outcome and backing off. During this phase you may feel tempted to contact her or “check up” on her. Don’t. Don’t try to miti- gate your past failures. And especially don’t try and “game” her. Simply sit back, let this final week pass, and get an objective view on things. Again, this is easier said than done. Howev- er, if you truly want another shot at the “girl who got away,” then you’ve got to learn the virtue of silence. You may convince yourself that you’ve “got to do something,” but that’s just your pride (and narcissism) talking. After 21 days exactly of “black” silence, you’re free to move into the next phase: The Blue Phase. This means cut off all phone calls, text mes- sages, and visits. Do this WITHOUT making her feel like you’re mad at her. The whole goal is to make her wonder what 15 is going on in your life that you don’t have time for her. When she contacts you… don’t answer the call, text, or email right away. Wait a day or two before getting back to her. When you do talk to her be pleasant but VAGUE. You should spend at least one month apart. The better friends you are with this girl, the longer the time apart should be. What you are doing here is interrupting her pattern and confusing her. The confusion will cause her to spend more time thinking about you. Her simply missing you will NOT be enough to stir up immense attraction for you. Although you will be vague, you should al- ways be implying that really great things are going on in your life.