::: 1 ::: Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 2 ::: Double Your Dating What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women By David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved Second Edition, Revised 2005 Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 3 ::: Introduction It’s taken me a long time to figure out all of the things that you’re about learn. I’ve spent years on this stuff. This book is meant to be used like an encyclopedia. It’s meant to be a REFERENCE, not a novel. The best way to use it is to read and find all of the parts that you like and note all of the ideas, skills, and techniques that you would like to work on and improve. Then take those sections and either write them down or print them so you can review them and practice. Success with women isn’t like success with learning to use a light switch. Success with women is more like success with learning to play a musical instrument. It takes practice. At first, none of it makes any sense. Sometimes it seems as though all of your practice isn’t making a difference. But if you keep at it, eventually you’ll be playing songs. And then you’ll be writing songs. Next thing you know, you’ve become a master. So take this book and use it as a workbook. Come back to it often. Reread the parts that you want to learn and integrate. And most importantly, DON’T STOP READING UNTIL YOU’RE DOING IT. Many people make the mistake of reading this book and then saying, “I know that stuff” before they’ve mastered the information through their experience. Don’t make this mistake yourself. Keep reading and practicing and using it until you HAVE IT DOWN. Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 4 ::: And do me a favor. E-mail me your ideas, comments, and complaints. I want to know what you think. You can e-mail me at: [email protected] Now let’s have some fun! Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 5 ::: Notice To Bad Guys …Or “Who Wants To Go To Jail And/Or Get Sued?” This book is copyright 2001-2005 with all rights reserved. It is illegal to copy, distribute, or create derivative works from this book in whole or in part or to contribute to the copying, distribution, or creating of derivative works of this book. When you purchased this book, you agreed to the statement similar to this one that was listed on my website: “©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved. If you try to copy, steal, or distribute all or any part of my book or this web page without permission, I will have my attorney contact you and make you wish that you’d never had such a stupid idea in your life. Count on it. By purchasing this book, you agree to the following: You understand that the information contained on this page and in this book is an opinion, and it should be used for personal entertainment purposes only. You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of this book is to be considered legal or personal advice.” And I expect you to abide by these rules. I regularly and actively search the Internet for people who violate my copyrights. Now that we’re finished with the bad guy notice, let’s learn about how to be successful with women... Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 6 ::: TABLE OF CONTENTS Part 1: How To Think About Success With Women ................................10 Chapter 1: Women Don’t Make Sense .......11 Where Our Desires Come From..............................12 The First Shift In Thinking.....................................14 It’s A Game To Them ...........................................16 Why Women Are Attracted To Things Like Fame, Money, And Power...............................................17 The Dark Side Of Beauty.......................................18 The Underlying Motives ........................................21 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 1................23 Chapter 2: How I Discovered What Works With Women ......................................26 It’s OK To Be A Man.............................................26 My Story............................................................31 Do As Much As You Can To Improve.......................32 Self-Image, Self-Talk, And Other Self Stuff..............35 The Attitude........................................................36 It All Comes Down To Your Skills............................38 Internal States....................................................42 Find Others.........................................................43 What Outcome Are You Looking For?......................44 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 2................45 Part 2: How To Communicate With Women .......................................47 Chapter 3: How To Develop A Personality That Is Irresistible To Women .................48 Be Different In An Attractive Way...........................48 Your Enemies Are Insecurity and Neediness.............49 Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 7 ::: Thinking In Time Frames......................................50 How Men Usually Find Women...............................52 The Six Things That Attract Women........................54 Personality Traits That Attract Women....................55 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 3................61 Chapter 4: How To Use Communication And Humor To Attract Women ................64 How Women Test Men And Why.............................64 The Very Attractive Women Are Approached All The Time..................................................................69 More On My Way Of Looking At Things....................71 On Being A Man...................................................74 How To Tease (How To Speak Woman)...................75 Humor...............................................................79 How To Be Funny, The One Page Course.................81 Let’s Be Friends...................................................83 More Nuggets of Gold...........................................84 On Predictability..................................................88 On Testing..........................................................89 Voice Tone..........................................................90 On Persistence:...................................................91 How To Answer Any Question That You Don’t Want To Answer..........................................................92 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 4................95 Chapter 5: On Looks and Body Language ...97 Body Language Basics..........................................97 Signs That A Woman Is Interested.......................100 On Cuddling......................................................101 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 5..............103 Part 3: Exactly What, When, And How ...........................................105 Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 8 ::: Chapter 6: The Basics of Style and Class, Plus More On How To Fascinate Women .. 106 Be Prepared! Expect...........................................106 Learn To Cook A Few Good Meals.........................107 Learn A Few Cold Reading Methods......................107 Get A Few Good Props........................................108 Chivalry ...........................................................109 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 6..............111 Chapter 7: Where And How To Meet Women........................................... 112 Where To Meet Women.......................................113 How To Meet Women .........................................115 The Initial Approach...........................................116 Meeting Women Online.......................................118 Meeting Women At Dance Lessons.......................119 Getting Them Interested In You...........................120 Getting Phone Numbers And E-mail Addresses.......121 Snappy Responses To Common Situations.............123 Key Points To Remember From Chapter 7..............126 Chapter 8: How To Approach “Dating”.... 129 How To Get The First Meeting..............................129 Two Ways Women Think About Men And How You Can Control This................................................129 When You Meet.................................................132 The First Date Is NOT An Interview......................134 Places To Go.....................................................137 10 Steps To A Guaranteed Great Date ..................139 Chapter 9: Getting Physical.................. 141 How To Take The Next Step................................141 Your 7-Step Guide To Getting Physical..................144 Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 9 ::: Chapter 10: Keeping Her Attracted To You, Or “How To Have a Long Term Relationship” ................................... 145 The Beginning of the End, Or the End of the Beginning.........................................................145 Interviews With Dating Gurus..............................147 Sexual Communication.......................................147 Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program......147 Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All Rights Reserved ::: 10 ::: Part 1: How To Think About Success With Women In this section, I’m going to teach some interesting things about how women think and how I’ve used this information to make myself more successful with them. 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