Let Your Inner Alpha Loose! • The REAL Secrets to Effortlessly Attract Women • Boost Your Confidence to the Roof • Develop a Magnetic Personality • And Dominate Every Aspect of Your Life • By James Beckett Copyright © 2015 All rights reserved worldwide. No part of this publication may be replicated, redistributed, or given away in any form without the permission of the author. Table of Contents It’s Time to Stop Being a Boy, and Start Being a Man What Does it Mean to Be an Alpha Male? Get Ready to Grow – and Don’t Ever Stop Growing Get Confident – And Mean It Find the Meaning in YOUR Life Never, Ever Give Up Start Thinking for Yourself Take Control of Every Situation Above All Else, Be Yourself Get What You Want – Whatever It Is Get the Girl Get the Looks Get the Career Get the Lifestyle Get the Personality Stop Reading, Start Doing First things first... By the time you finish this book, you’ll feel like the alpha male you were always born to be – your life will have begun to change and you’ll be climbing right to the top of the pecking order, where you belong. But before you get started, scroll down to download my FREE bonus chapter on working out like an alpha male, packed with advice on getting the body you want through the ideal exercise and diet plan. An alpha male needs to look the part as well as he acts the part – and with this imperative bonus chapter, you’ll be able to complete your alpha male package. Now that you have everything you need, let's start... It’s Time to Stop Being a Boy, and Start Being a Man Why have you opened this book? What made the title jump out at you and make you want to dive straight in this very moment to turn its promise into reality? What’s wrong with your current situation that makes you think becoming an alpha male is the solution? My guess is that you don’t feel like your life is quite where you think it should be and you’re looking for the right way to turn things around. You think that maybe, just maybe, all it would take is a few tweaks of your personality to push you in the right direction, helping you get the girl, the high powered career of your dreams, the pack of friends you’ve always wanted to run with and the busy, rewarding lifestyle you know you deserve. You think that becoming an alpha male may be the answer to all your problems. You’re right – that’s exactly what this book can do for you. But before it can start to do that, you’re going to need to wake up to a couple of realities that are fundamentally, excruciatingly important. Being an alpha male is not about pretending to be just like that one cocky asshole with the wry grin we all know, whose ego is too big to fit in the room. That’s not an alpha male – that’s an idiot with arrogance issues. You’re going to need to understand exactly what an alpha male is before you can start reaping the benefits of being that kind of guy. It’s also not about putting on a front while staying exactly the same person behind the scenes. If you’re going to turn things around and become the alpha male that men want to be and women want to be with, you need to accept that your life and personality are your responsibility and that changing who you are means deep, lasting improvements that are as true under the surface as they are above it. You don’t have the life you want right now, but it’s time to stop crying into your cereal about it. You will have that life, just as long as you go into this process with the right attitude. Be honest with yourself and admit, maybe for the first time in your life if you’ve come this far as one of the plebs instead of one of the kings, that you can’t be constantly making excuses for all the things that have happened to you so far. It’s all down to you whether you succeed, and it always has been. Unless you accept that, you’re not going to get far trying to improve things. The only difference between right this moment and ten minutes ago, before you opened the first page of this book, is that you’re now holding in your hands the secret to real transformation. It’s still up to you whether you put it into practice and, like the butterfly out of the cocoon, emerge as the loud, proud and loveable alpha male you’ve always wanted to be. Accepting these things is the first step to becoming an alpha male – congratulations, you’ve already started the journey. If you hold steady and keep committed, you’ll also reach the end. This is the last time you will ever leave the house not knowing how people are going to react to you. This is the last time you need to wait anxiously to find out whether you’ve got the promotion you wanted or you’ve made it onto the sports team. This is the last time you will avoid talking to the woman who caught your eye because you think she might turn you down. This is the beginning of the rest of your life – so let’s get this show on the road. W hat Does it Mean to Be an Alpha Male? We all know what it means to be an alpha male, right? You see them all over the movies, on television shows and in books. The alpha male is the hero of every story and the icon we all of us aspire to. The alpha male is the leader of the pack, the one everyone turns to when they need to know what to think or do, the extrovert who’s constantly out on the town with his friends and attracts women like flies to the honey jar. He doesn’t take nonsense from anyone – and nor would anyone dare to give him any nonsense. He’s excellent at whatever he decides to turn his hand to, from building things with his hands to playing sports and pushing his career to the next level. An alpha male is charming, and everyone wants to spend time with him. He barely has time to sit down for a cup of coffee, because his calendar is so full of high powered work meetings, manly hobbies and nights out with women and wine. When he walks in the room, everything seems better and brighter – we’re ok now, because the alpha is here to take charge. He’s aggressive when he needs to be, especially when he’s defending his pack, and he’ll stick by your side through thick and thin. In other words, an alpha male is everything you wish you could be, but you aren’t. For now. On the other hand, that’s not all that being an alpha male is about. What I just described is a fantasy figure that the media has boiled the alpha male down to, a shorthand to describe a very complicated reality. But the trouble with stories is that they never have room to paint the whole picture. They give you nuggets to chew on that help you access your own view of an alpha male, but they never show what’s going on underneath. These stereotypes may help you visualize an alpha male, but they’re not going to help you become one. To do that, you’re going to need to go deeper. So what’s missing from the description? A whole lot. If you want to be an alpha male, you need to concentrate on more than just the movie version, and more than just the idea of being the dominant man in any room. You need to fix what’s going on under the surface and, when you do, you’ll find that it shines through and becomes visible to everyone around you, with no effort needed at all. To be an alpha male, you’re going to have to become: Confident in yourself and calm in the face of criticism, knowing without doubt that you have fulfilled the promise of your character, but without ever displaying arrogance about that fact. Passionate about everything you do, clear about your goals and driven to reach the next step of the ladder on your journey towards success. Deeply committed to your morals and to earning the trust of everyone around you. Physically fit and healthy, able to take on any sport challenge or test of strength. Comfortable in the presence of others and genuinely interested in finding out more about them and helping them achieve their own goals. Quick to praise and feel happy for others’ achievements, never feeling jealous of someone else’s success. Tireless in your efforts to better yourself and your circumstances, no matter how difficult the path ahead may seem. Comfortable in the role of a leader and able to inspire others to follow without ever resorting to violence, bullying and intimidation. Humble in your own successes, allowing others to see you for who you are without feeling the need to flaunt the things you have achieved. Driven to succeed and to identify the flaws that are holding you back from doing so, never blaming fate or other people for your failures along the way and able to learn from your experiences. These are the traits you need to aspire to – so did you find that list motivating, or did you find it daunting? If you’re excited by the thought of embodying all those qualities, you’re ready to walk the path of the alpha male. If you thought the latter, even if you just thought it quietly at the back of your head, it’s time to suck it up and realize that nobody ever got exactly what they wanted just by asking for it. If you want to become an alpha male, you’re going to need to work for it – and the good news is that you’re quickly going to discover as you read on through these chapter that the process of working to become an alpha male, all by itself, is what’s going to help you get exactly where you’re trying to go. Are you ready to get started? Good, so let’s begin.