Beyond Seduction INNER TO OUTER GAME Carlos Xuma Jon Sinn 1 INTRO AND WELCOME 2 Meet Carlos • Who I Am... • Teaching about Alpha Man & Alpha Lifestyle since 2002 (Studying Art of Attraction since 1995) • Martial arts instructor • Inner Game - My forte • Difficult childhood - chose to get over issues through self-work • Society has a stigma about men using techniques 3 Disclaimer Studying the art of attraction since 1995 Society has a stigma about men doing anything to get women. Implies “RAPE”! Manipulation! PERVERSION! But itʼs fine for women to share information on how to get men. Meet Carlos • Not “Dating For Retards” • Not “Theoretical techniques” • I want to give you genuine techniques and methods for you to use to feel confident, and get results • PERIOD 4 Get The Most From This... • How to get the most out of this program... • Hear with fresh ears (let go of jading) • Alignment of your energy (synchronize lifestyle) • Vectors of force - (the moving walkway) 5 FAST START • The principle of Lifestyle • Whatever you do regularly becomes your identity • Compounding effect of inner game/outer game/ lifestyle elements • Triple threat: outer/inner game/motivation 6 All things are connected in a symbiotic loop: Inner game to outer game and back in again Resistance/Change • Resistance is natural, becomes fear • Story of rollercoaster • Change happens whether you want it or not • Most change is for the worse, not directed 7 You’ll really only be happy to the degree that you can roll with the punches 8 Symbiotic loop Inner vs. Outer Game • Inner Game - Everything in your head • Outer Game - Everything externally demonstrated • In our context, Inner Game = the thought processes that either enable or disable you from taking the actions you want to tak with women 9 Something reassuring about the world: Everything you see started out as a thought in someone’s head. Inner vs. Outer Game • It’s all one big cycle • You can’t treat just one or the other - it’s all connected • Upward and downward spirals 10 What happens if your technique (outer game) falls flat? What happens if your mood and attitude is positive?